Where to live in retirement sounds like a simple question but ask anyone what criteria they would consider if they were going to move to a condo/home in retirement, and you will likely get a blank stare or “we haven’t thought about it yet”. I did a quick internet search on what to consider when choosing a place to retire, and here are the factors that came up.
Family and Friends
Location
Transportation
Accessibility
Evaluating Needs
Floorplan
Medical Care
Senior Living Culture
Social Activities
Cost of Living
Financial Considerations
Safety Features
Community, Dining and Nearby Amenities
Within each of these categories are multiple choices, so this is no small task to figure out. Today I want to explore the one thing that I notice most couples do not consider at all. What happens if/when one of the spouses dies or has a serious health concern? Anyone that’s been there knows your world will change right then and there. When a spouse dies typically 50% or more of the monthly income disappears overnight but most of the household expenses remain.
As a retirement mortgage specialist, I encounter this scenario a few times per month. When it’s a case of one spouse needing medical attention and they want to remain in the home, sometimes there is enough value in the home that can be released to support in-home healthcare, however that’s not always possible. When there is a death, the surviving spouse often wants to remain in their home but cannot afford the monthly costs of being there. More often than not it’s financially best to sell the home and relocating to an area where homes are less expensive to purchase and the carrying costs to live there are lower than the current home.
I have also observed that most individuals and couples are unaware of their monthly expenses. Getting a handle on this before an unexpected illness or death occurs will allow a clearer picture and less anxiety about one’s options when this happens.
Contact me to help you or a friend, family member or client to get the clarity necessary to successfully navigate one of the most impactful decisions about your retirement.
Mark Richards
NMLS # 254317 Fairway Independent Mortgage Corporation
Phone / Text 201-679-2734 Email mrichards@fairwaymc.com
Hackensack, NJ Reverse Mortgage Planner – Mark Stephen Richards (fairwayreverse.com)